What’s the best way to deal with heartbreak?


I have a friend who can be said to be out of a relationship or out of unrequited love. for him, the best way is self-heal, and I do respect him. Below I will describe his experience in the first person.

I met a girl when I was in high school. To be honest, I didn’t feel anything about her at first, but then our assigned seats got together. Her grades are very good, but there will be some weaknesses in mathematics, so she will often ask me questions, and every time we will seriously discuss issues related to learning. Gradually, I realized that I had changed. I wanted to talk to her and understand her every move, but she didn’t notice the change in my feelings for her.

Campus life progressed slowly, and we also ushered in the university entrance exam. When the final exam was approaching, I asked her roommate to help make an appointment with her, and wanted to confess to her after the exam. But, unfortunately, she did not agree to go out with me. Later, we did not meet again, I sent her a message, and she did not reply again…

Until sophomore year, she suddenly replied to me one day. To be honest, I’m really really excited, but I don’t know how to open the topic. We just asked each other about the situation in the past two years. It seems to be just the most ordinary classmate. But my feelings for her can’t be eliminated. My roommates also complained about me all day, every time I reply to the message, they make a fuss, but after a long time, they are not surprised.

I don’t know if you have any experience like this. When you send a particularly long message, the other party just simply responds, yes, yes. They are all replies that cannot be more concise. Maybe this kind of reply will make you feel very disappointed, but I am really happy with the news she replied, because she is really good, but she cannot develop further with me.

I once asked her why she didn’t agree to go out and chat with me in high school. She said that she vaguely felt what I wanted to do (laughing and crying, she also felt it), so she refused. It seems that I am passionate, and I think I am hiding well. I didn’t ask her if she had a partner now, (very likely not), but I also told her clearly that I will wait for her until she wants to make a boyfriend. Now I have graduated and I have never seen her again. But after all, after such a long time, I never thought about choosing anyone other than her. But things have turned around, because I will see her in a while…

This is the story of my friend. He is really persistent. I am also amazed at his persistence to a girl, but at the same time I feel a little sad. What if the girl does not accept him. Feelings are sometimes so uncertain, and sometimes they can’t be grasped. 

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