The best version is actually your ideal self. But unlike stars, who need to wrap themselves up in front of the public at all times. Maybe you can use a few points to determine whether you are moving towards your ideal state.
- Define your position
First of all, you should have a clear understanding of yourself. You need to recognize your greatest strength and charm. And then keep working in these directions. For example, if you want to be a knowledgeable person, at least you should prepare more books for yourself. If you want to be strong, you need to prepare your training plan.
- Find your own benchmark
Find your reference target. You can say that you just want to surpass yourself, but in fact, most people do not have the perseverance to endure the transformation alone. For example, if you want to have a healthy life, you can find the right blogger on YouTube or other social software to see how they spend their day, or what good habits they can stick to. So when you start to be a better person, you don’t give up halfway.
- Combined with other people’s evaluation
Judge by what people around you think of you. Most of the time, people are in the game. So when you think that you have made great efforts and made great achievements, you can listen to the comments of people around you.
- Focus on self-evaluation
Combine self-evaluation and other evaluation to judge whether you have reached your psychological expectation. Although other people’s evaluation will not make us blindly subjective to our own judgment, others will not be with you every minute, so their evaluation can only be used as reference. You still need to do a good job of self-evaluation. Review your efforts regularly, and take into account other people’s opinions, so that you can continue to move forward to your better self.
Everyone will have their own dissatisfaction, but that is the complete real self. 🙂